The Hunter’s guide to Mythical Creatures

Mythical creatures. Do they exist? Some say that in the Amazon, Vampires lurk, among the strange plants, strange bloodsuckers waiting for blood and a tasty human morsel to abate their insatiable thirst.
Late in the night, when you hear dogs howling, you enslaved by insomnia but tired enough to hallucinate, do you imagine werewolves baying their violent and lonely souls out with the dogs.
Are you like me, wont to sudden bouts of imagination? Do you imagine what you would do if there was a sudden apocalypse where even your loved ones became glassy eyed and started walking slovenly towards you muttering “Braaainnnsss” like a hyper realistic Plants vs Zombies come to life?
I mean you can hardly escape the stuff. TV feeds us a balanced diet of sarcastic humor, nudity and mythical animals. 40 year olds can not wait to get back home and hook on to the latest GOT episode.
We are hooked on to this mythical creatures scenario because it could not be far away from the truth and it does not scare you because, well,’myth’
Now, what if I told you you’re living or have interacted with these creatures? Let me show you how below:
HUNTERPEDIA
Werewolf: Akin to the mythical creature in European lore, Werewolves only turn at the full moon. The full moon in this instance can be a metaphor for problems.
When you’re having problems of any sort, the werewolves will come out of the woodworks. The fake friends who tear you apart, the Satan you are dating who erodes your confidence “Guys, give up. You just cant do it. “even me I have not done the coursework, “guess who I saw with who” and so many more.
Werewolves show their true colors soon enough happily.
Remedy: Weed them out. Cut off connection with all suspected werewolves.

Vampires: Vampires are much harder to detect because they are clever, mask themselves so well. The vampires in your life are well attached to the aorta and are slowly draining your lifeblood.
Vampires are what we call the influencers. They are the first step to a bad decision. If you had a friend and they suddenly went off the deep end, went crazy and all for one person, that person is a vampire.
If you have a partner and the partner suggests that it is better to give them your tuition money for a trinket or a night out, Vampire! If every time you do something to impress someone but after that you feel dirty and awful, vampire!
Vampires make you addicted to seeking for their approval; you feel like you should live up to their standards and these are usually the shallow, self seeking, self effacing standards. Vampire I tell you.
Vampires drain you of soul. They date you, emotionally feeding off of you, financially draining you, eating your spirit until they leave you the shell of the person you once were. They are never grateful, never satisfied.
If you have ever dated a person and you don’t remember any happy times, hello, Vampire! And true to the Vampire tradition, contact with a Vampire may leave you one. (Ergo,50% of the fuckboys and fuckgirls you have met were turned by Original fuckpeople)
Remedy: Cut them off as soon as you know. If you feel sad because so and so made a disparaging comment about your physical features, it is not worth it. IT HAS never been worth it. Madea once made a comment I resonate with, “if someone controls your mood, they control you.” If you have a friend who is being courted by a Vampire;save them. Become a hunter and protect your own.

Zombies:
Most of you usually have a person among your friends who is annoying,uncouth,disorderly, and who serves no particular purpose except to feed off of you.
The one who turns up, urges you all to go and drink and somehow you pay. The inveterate borrower in the group. “Some 1k Ill pay back in December” but December never came. Do you know that person your friends ask why you’re friends with them but you have no real answer? Yeah,they the walking dead.
They have no real goal in life except to eat and drink and make merry and will not develop themselves or advance in life. Compared to Vampires and Werewolves these are harmless yes, and most of them are delightful people. But that which you find so attractive about them “they are so free” is not freedom but lethargy, laziness. They are caught in a mind trap, People who they say “Oyo atambula naye muffu.” If you associate with them for too long, they will eat your brains too. Trust me.
Remedy: If you love them and want them to stay in your life. Kick start them. Have a sit down and tough love the hell out of them. If you don’t want them around; the curb awaits your kick.
Thank you for reading this far. You are my favorite reader.

Mental Duet: Glee but for blogging

Jason and I have flirted with the idea of writing a joint blog for a while now. The way life is though, we have not yet gotten round to it. The first idea we had when we discussed the joint blog was on loving something so much it destroys you. That the thing you love would be the first to destroy you, the same thing you should fear. Think of loving somebody. I like thinking there is destruction because I’m a pessimist but Jason is sunshine and rainbows so he thinks what you love cannot destroy you. I kindly beg his pardon. It does. Devastatingly, drastically, fantastically.

When you fall in love, the world stops and a very fancy old English orchestra plays in the background. Tis him. Tis her. They are here; your soulmates, the ones you’re going to spend the rest of your life with. HALLELUJAH, HALLELUJAH Hallleeeelujahhh.

Man, there is no talking about your Bae. They are the best behaved, most thoughtful, fantastic lovers on earth. Sometimes I used to fear that he was inhuman because surely how can a person this handsome, brilliant and considerate be single. And why me?? What did I do to deserve this otherworldly creature gracing my life?

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Anyway after sometime the endorphins wear off and you start to realize he’s fantastic but very human. The snores start to annoy you and blabla but you still love him. Lol.

The same can be said for a phone, a computer or even a place. You love the place so much that you go there every day then the diminishing returns law kicks in and you still love it but not with the newly discovered ardor.

The sadness though is that these things do not reciprocate your love, to them you’re just another human. A phone will work for you in the same way it does for the rest of the other 6,9,99999999999 people in the world. Your favorite place does not understand exclusivity so it will not close up and vanish until you come back like the room of requirements in Harry Potter.

We don’t own anything really. Not even money. So why do we let these things destroy us? Why do we relate success as the imprisonment of things that are not really ours in the first place?

Why is it that most of the reasons for war in the world make relation to people trying to change the laws of nature?

The Rwandan Genocide is a very sad story of ‘WE WERE HERE FIRST, SO GO BACK TO WHERE YOU CAME FROM.”

Actually, most of Africa has felt the greed of snatchers, people trying to ruin nature by taking without replacing, without consideration. Sigh.

Anyway, the whole point of this was to say that if you love something, and you think it’s going to destroy you, let it go.

 

 

If you are reading this it means Grace and I have finally overpowered the procrastination to come through with this blog. Hasn’t been as easy as these words may establish.

Oh she lied… she really did; I actually believe that what you love can destroy you… It really can. But that’s on the face of it and should remain on the face of it. It should never really destroy you. With lessons learned, you should be quick to brush it off and be ready to try again.

How can you let bad experiences and the wrong people bring you unwarranted doubt about the good out there even with so much? There are indeed so many good people out there; they just have this defensive savage shield up to guard themselves against the wrong people.

How we gon’ get married and be happy my nigga, feel normal for once by loving someone and not have to think that there is detriment at the end of it all when it’s not to a point of certainty that it will even be there in the first place? We can’t start our lives on some sort of pessimistic outlook. It all falls back on perspective.

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When we gon’ quit the running from what we really feel and the people we start to like? Planes are disappearing out of detectable air space but does that stop us from getting on them? Does that stop us from dreaming that we gon’ travel the life out of the world one day? How we gon’ let that terrible past always win and dictate how you are going to carry on with your life? Well it’s understandable if you got trust issues or those other curtailments if they are not creatures of your past bad experiences. Whatever you do, like I said, you can’t let your past always win tell you what you can and can’t do, make you miss out on the right people when they actually come your way, make you doubt whether it’s real, make you forget the difference between trash and what’s real.

They say your dreams should scare you, and getting back on your feet rubbing it all off and keeping your dreams and expectations for better high enough should do just that but it should also be the order. Yeah who wants to be 60 and alone, with the only thing in their fold is a pile of trust issues, remarkable mileage of running…running away from what they ever felt, a great count of these good people they curved, these feelings they never acknowledged nor embraced because once upon a time they got hurt and from then on the bad experiences dictated how they lived their lives and made it clear to them them they would never be happy, they’d never see anything good come their way.

They say love fades, that’s if it doesn’t die out…there is never a point of certainty. But who is worried about that when you can decide to live each moment as it comes, one day at a time?

I started with the intention of saying that if you love something and it destroys you, lessons should be learned, that’s key. But that shouldn’t define how your life is always going to be, it shouldn’t be okay to be scared about ever trying again. Such snags should never win. Happiness comes from within and there is no greater device than hope.

what we think

Her: Hi (Hello.I miss you)

Him: Hey

Her: what’s good? (Miss me? Please say you do. So I can say it too)

Him: Nothing. Who is this? (HAA. Like I can forget the way the braids frame your face when you bend down to laugh in that queer adorable way you have)

Her: (Mortified) It is Jane. From your class. (I like you but you didn’t even save my number.)

Him: OOOOhhh, what’s up Jane? (LUNCH ?? Can we talk till nighttime? You’re very beautiful did you know that? I love you. I just know)

Her: Nara. Was just checking on you (Say you miss me so I can say it. I don’t want you to think Im too forward but I miss you and I think you are the one and I just really really want you to like me like I like you. So sayitsayitsayitsayitsayit)

Him: Oh that’s nice. Thanks (YOU LIKE ME I KNOW YOU DO. I LOVE YOU. WHAT DO I SAY OMG OMG OMG SHE LIKES ME WHAT DO I SAY?)
Her: Okay bye (He clearly does not like me back. )

Him: k,bye (What she’s leaving. Say something cool. No funny. No cool. What? How can you say just k. are you nuts? You STUPID boy. STUPIDSTUPIDSTUPIDSTUPID)

Sigh.

The tension was palpable. She could not sit still. Her heart was pounding and she was feeling it in her mouth. She was either going to vomit or faint or both but she knew she should sit still.

She was only five, a graceful child, impeccably dressed albeit in rags. Her parents were not that wealth but whose were? She was beautiful, a deer. Big doe eyes, soft. So ill suited for what was happening

The radio yammered on and in her juvenile mind it took such a sinister look because of the words coming out of it. She understood so little of the hate speech but the air of impeding doom that befell her mother and father were enough to know that something was really really wrong.

Nothing mattered except escaping. She saw her parents packing, unpacking, cry and wring their hands. Her baby sister was  unaware of what was happening and played with the ramshackle rubbish doll she had made.

She wanted to scream. What was happening? What was this madness? but she went outside, slipped away unawares to do the dishes, return a semblance of normalcy to this deeply bewildering day.

She did not know that the killers were watching her.

. I can not go on with this story. I am sorry.

 

 

Major life decision

Okay. So I will be the first to say this so you don’t here about it from anywhere else.

I Grace Gatera, am getting a sex change. I am tired of being a girl and all the pressures that come with it. I have gotten an American family that is going to provide the first step toward the important operation which will take place, 30/2/2017.

I know it is saying too much to ask for your support because as An African nation we do not yet have the open mindedness and freedom to accept change but I am happy with my decision and I pray that in time you will understand that this has nothing to do with you.

I am taking pills to help with my transformation and I already have a beard. if you see me with it. or hear my voice, please do not judge me. As the wise man said. he that is a fool in April is a fool forever.:)

What Easter means to me.

The tortured cry of an innocent man

Human, for a second

A life time of 7 billion sins

engulfing him, suffocating him

 

He was to descend to Hades

with this heavy burden

A twisted Santa gift bag

Full of sins.

Offering redemption

 

He took them down with him

To remind the lord of the flies

the host of demons

of who was king

 

AND HE TRIUMPHED

He came back.

Burdenless.

Happy.

Mission accomplished

 

Only to hear his son say, My father does not exist

Nor does my brother

But I am not an orphan

Because I created myself from

a small stone

 

That is not the point though

The point is

He is risen Vanya

He is risen indeed.

This I tell you

Beautful MK watch, flawless hair, smooth complexion. fidgets with watch strap. ring finger bearing diamonds like a tiffany ad, slim waist, tapering torso, delicate fingers, good smell, silky voice, sireny, could lead you to your death by just singing. I want to be that. I have dreamed many times of being a damsel in distress akin to book heroines with their amazing looks and Mother Theresa generosity.

I have wanted to be craved like a drug, to be sung across hills and in valleys, to be famous to be powerful. I still want to make a substantial change in this world, not to be just another statistic.

But I realize this shall not happen. I am not grand, or elegant or even particularly stand out beautiful. For some,  Their extraordinary beauty and accomplishment stands out. We awe at their seamless and effortless talent, beauty and general amazingness. Others combine all three and you start to think of them as aliens because no human can have it all.  This phenomenon is rare and what is left is us humaniae ordinariae. We have to work and work and sometimes we pass on to the unknown having been known by a handful of friends and loved ones.The impact we make can be measured in yards not square kilometres.

I just want to say, that’s okay. Endeavor to live life to the best of your ability, be kind, be generous, once in a while splurge on that invisible person in your life who keeps it all together.

I have a few people who have shaped me, provided a little direction that turned out to be the road I would take. My father taught me how to read when I was 2. My mother taught me how to read silently when I was four. This is important to me (Reading silently let me feel like an adult and thus I began venturing into bigger and more wordy books) I read the whole of the Lord of the rings trilogy when I was 9. For this and the thorough classical book education I underwent, I would like to thank my godparents.

My sister would borrow novel after novel after novel from her classmates to calm my insatiable appetite for the written word. The librarian at the UPE school I went to for a while (On account of we were refugees) gave me keys to the library and I spent a night there. I scared my parents and I was very hungry at dawn but that was my first foray into exciting oriental literature, (I was reading a dog eared edition of the Arabian nights, I remember I fell asleep on Ali Baba and the Forty thieves and I dreamt that I was Morgana, the alluring beautiful killer)

My cousin Joy read more than me and I wanted to be her and more so I would listen aptly as she spoke and use her terms at school.

Before I get lost in the myriad of beautiful memories I have of my childhood, I was saying that it is okay to be normal, live a normal life and get remembered fondly by a few.

Im not saying that it is okay to lay back, be lazy and do not work. No. What I am saying that where you can be content, please be. Pass on the chance to complain about inevitability like how your nose is shaped or where you were born, this you had no say in. God chose for you to be here like this so you might as well enjoy it.

And as you seek attention for this or the other, do not lose yourself. It’s okay not to become viral. You still have someone who loves you and will laugh at your jokes/pass on your mixtape/read your blog faithfully.

But again, if you want to have a grand old adventure it’s alright. The important thing is to know what is yours and live by it.